Hey all — finally posting this after going in circles trying to research it properly.
Dating profile quality is probably the most underrated variable in online dating outcomes, and the available advice ranges from genuinely useful to actively counterproductive. I'm trying to find sources with real data behind them rather than just vibes-based takes.
Specificity beats generic positivity in written bios — 'I run marathons' outperforms 'I love staying active' consistently.
The specific things I'm trying to nail down:
- Whether advertised features work as described
- Real outcomes in my geographic area
- Safety and reporting tools
- Reputation among users who've been on the platform 6+ months
Would really appreciate honest takes from people with actual experience rather than what the platform says about itself.