I know this comes up but I haven't found a thread with recent enough information to be useful.
Platform legitimacy is honestly my primary concern here. The pattern of fake profiles, dark-pattern pricing, and absent moderation is depressingly common and it's hard to evaluate from outside without real user feedback. Long-term community experience is worth infinitely more than platform self-descriptions.
Romance scam rates on Ukrainian-themed platforms are very high — verification features are essential.
The specific things I'm trying to figure out:
- Privacy policy and data handling practices
- How straightforward is cancellation if needed?
- Geographic distribution of active users
- Quality of any identity verification
Would really appreciate honest takes from people with genuine experience rather than what the platforms say about themselves.