Genuine question here — looking for takes from people who've actually tried these rather than just read about them.
Most of what I find online is either outdated, clearly from paid partnerships, or from one person's very specific experience. Real community input from people who've actually spent time with these platforms is harder to find than it should be.
The dedicated platforms now have viable user bases in most major cities.
Would really appreciate honest takes from people with genuine experience rather than what the platforms say about themselves.