Putting this to people who have actually done it rather than written about it: sites like adult friend finder that are free.
When it comes to sites like adult friend finder that are free, with the usual caveats the answer depends more on your area than the platform. The thing I keep coming back to is that a handful of the people I actually met matched the description — that is the whole story really for AdultFriendFinder. What I care about most with adult friend finder is which limits only appear after you sign up.
How long did you give adult friend finder before deciding? Would rather hear one real account of adult friend finder than ten reviews.
Glad to compare notes on adult friend finder if anyone wants.