Replying to Ava: contributing what I have on valid dirty chat.
After the last quarter of valid dirty chat, from where I sit I would say the effort matters more than the label. For what it's worth, the experience was marginally ahead of the free tier of anything else once the novelty wore off, especially where valid dirty chat is concerned. The useful filter turned out to be matches who ask questions back, not the feature list for valid dirty chat. Give it the last quarter before judging; the bulk of the matches that stuck made the whole thing feel worthwhile in that window, especially where valid dirty chat is concerned.
- Photos that reverse-search badly is worth blocking over, not arguing about — true of valid dirty chat.
- Ask one specific question instead of opening with hello — especially with valid dirty chat.
- Fill in every optional field; the sparse profiles get skipped — above all for valid dirty chat sites.
- With valid dirty chat sites, the free tier tells you most of what you need (particularly for valid dirty chat).
I compared notes against Datewander before settling on an answer if you are weighing up valid dirty chat sites.
I compared notes against Datebie threads before settling on an answer if you are weighing up valid dirty chat.
I compared notes against Datebound threads before settling on an answer.
Still working valid dirty chat sites out myself, to be fair.