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What are the best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk?

Started by SamM Started 27 Aug 2025 Board Free Dating & Apps Replies 7 Last reply 04 Jul 2026
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#1

I keep seeing contradictory answers about best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk, so I want the honest version.

I spent a fortnight of proper testing on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk and a surprising number of the replies I got confirmed what I suspected. One correction I would make is that a handful of the accounts I came across matched the description for guys who want. What I care about most with guys who want is how the reality differs from the marketing.

What was your sample size on guys who want? Would rather hear one real account of guys who want than ten reviews.

Hope that is some use on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.

#2

Replying to SamM: here is what I ran into with best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.

Coming back to best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk, for what it's worth the pattern was consistent. The clearest signal was a bio that reads like a person wrote it; the clearest warning was pressure to move off-platform in the first hour, especially where guys who want is concerned.

  • Give any platform a few months of steady use before deciding it is dead — above all for best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.
  • The bulk of the accounts I came across changed my mind about the platform in my case — which matters most for guys who want.
  • Density beats features — a busy small site beats a quiet big one — doubly true of guys who want.
  • Results were indistinguishable from the well-known names once I adjusted for area — doubly true of guys who want (particularly for guys who want).

Worth separating cam sites from long-term intentions when you weigh up best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk — the same platform behaves differently for each.

Curious whether anyone else saw the same with guys who want.

#3

@Angel Perez contributing what I have on guys who want.

Testing guys who want over about a month showed that barely any of the threads that went anywhere changed my mind about the platform. Give it three or four weeks before judging; a decent proportion of the ones that answered quickly matched the description in that window for guys who want.

  • Density beats features — a busy small site beats a quiet big one — which matters most for best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.
  • First photo does most of the work — lead with your best — above all for guys who want.
  • Judge best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk on week three, not day one (particularly for guys who want).

Draw your own conclusions about guys who want from that.

#4

SamM — I see best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk differently.

The short version on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk is that outcomes were broadly comparable to the newer entrants. On balance, results were a step up from what people claim online, especially where guys who want is concerned. The reason I disagree is that most advice on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk assumes a dense city and mine is not.

Happy to be corrected by anyone with more data on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.

#5

@SamM one more perspective on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.

Looking specifically at guys who want, from where I sit results were marginally ahead of what the reviews suggested. Give it a few weekends before judging; the majority of the profiles that felt genuine were a waste of an evening in that window for guys who want. The useful filter turned out to be responses that arrive at human hours, not the feature list, especially where guys who want is concerned.

Worth separating no-strings dating from long-term intentions when you weigh up guys who want — the same platform behaves differently for each.

Worth a look alongside the big names: Rendate if you are weighing up best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk.

For a lighter-weight comparison, some people here point to Flamedate discussions if you are weighing up guys who want.

Your results with guys who want may differ, obviously.

#6

Replying to Angel Perez: adding my own data point on guys who want.

My take on guys who want: It is worth flagging that close to all of the people in my age range felt automated. What tipped it for me was that a surprising number of the replies I got felt automated, especially where guys who want is concerned. What I watch for now is someone who does not push to move platforms, and what ends it is a story that changes between messages for guys who want.

Worth separating casual hookups from long-term intentions when you weigh up guys who want — the same platform behaves differently for each.

That is where I landed on best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk after all of it.

#7

@Angel Perez my run at guys who want went like this.

On best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk, on the evidence I have the differences between options are smaller than people claim. Over three or four weeks, well over half of the people in my age range were a waste of an evening, especially where guys who want is concerned.

A smaller option people keep naming is this thread on Datewander.

Happy to expand on any of that about best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk if it helps.

#8

Can I ask a follow-up about guys who want?

When it comes to best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk, with the usual caveats the answer depends more on your area than the platform. What I watch for now is a profile that names specifics, and what ends it is a profile with three words in it for guys who want. Has anyone tested best dating sites for guys who want to skip the small talk outside a major metro?

Worth separating local hookups from long-term intentions when you weigh up guys who want — the same platform behaves differently for each.

I compared notes against this thread on Datebie before settling on an answer.

That is where I landed on guys who want after all of it.

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None of these are reviews we wrote — they are members comparing notes on guys who want.

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