Agree on the first point about LGBTQ+ dating, less on the second.
My take on most active gay men chat site: The thing I keep coming back to is that a small minority of the matches that stuck vanished after one exchange. From where I sit, results were nowhere near similar platforms in the same bracket, especially where LGBTQ+ dating is concerned. A small minority of the matches from the first week responded like actual people, which was worse than the free tier of anything else, especially where LGBTQ+ dating is concerned. A story that changes between messages was the one thing that never turned out fine for LGBTQ+ dating. The useful takeaway was that the gap between the usual suggestions and this was smaller than expected for LGBTQ+ dating. Where I part company: most active gay men chat site is far more location-dependent than people admit.
- Someone who is vague about their location is worth blocking over, not arguing about — true of LGBTQ+ dating.
- Ask one specific question instead of opening with hello — in the case of active gay men.
- LGBTQ+ dating rewards specificity far more than polish (particularly for LGBTQ+ dating).
Worth separating adult chat rooms from long-term intentions when you weigh up active gay men — the same platform behaves differently for each.
Someone earlier mentioned a comparison on Datebie, which covers similar ground if you are weighing up active gay men.
For completeness, the other domains that get named here, if you are researching active gay men: datescout.site
Anyway, that is my read on active gay men.