Been going round in circles on this one, so putting it to the board: safest way to arrange an adult meet from an online forum?
With safest way to arrange an adult meet from an online forum, in practice the first fortnight tells you most of what you need. The useful takeaway was that an account that has been active a while predicted a real conversation better than anything else for safety. What I care about most with safest way to arrange an adult meet from an online forum is screening people properly before meeting offline.
How long did you give online forum before deciding? Would rather hear one real account of online forum than ten reviews.
Your results with online forum may differ, obviously.